Everybody needs one.

So you have finally found the one you want to share the rest of your life with but you keep trying really hard to find something interesting to talk about or do when you are together.

As hard as this is for some people to admit, after a while of being together all day every day - it does get a bit boring and you end up feeling as if that "spark" is just not there, you start wondering if it's romantic or brotherly/sisterly love you feel for your partner or kanjani! You get too used to having them around that when you look at them, you just don't feel the way you used to when you first met.... It's no lie, it happens to be best of couples out there - for real!

This is my point:

You'll know somewhere deep in your heart that you love this person and they love you back but at the same time you just have this urge to go out and find yourself a .... wait for it.... SPLACKAVELLI a.k.a JZ a.k.a THe OTHER ONE!!! You know that other person that will keep you excitited, enjoying the thrill of being naughty behind your girl/boyfriend's back and knowing that you might be caught and at the same time trying hard not to let it show that you have been doing some late night creeping while you partner is at home thinking that you are visiting your elderly grandmother in the Bundus where there is poor network!!!!

You are not entirely to blame, shit happens you know and relationships in general can be hard to mantain and sometimes you just need to get away from all that and get down & dirty (in a harmless manner though). Do what ever that feels right to you and know that when you do eventually get caught with your pants down - you are able to explain your way out of it and remember EN JOY the thrill while it lasts, it doesn't hurt to be naughty and carefree every now and then, just don't break a lot hearts whilst you still at it!!!

Yours in words....

AfroSLiQ Diva!!!