Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Women issues ne!

Songs of hope seemed to inspire those who were in the room.
I saw their eyes light up screaming "yes we shall fight for our rights"!
No woman would purposely choose to be abused, whether it's verbaly, emotionally or physically. Izinto ziyenzeka for sure but then againvery few of us see it from the start. Vele he will approach you with that "Im just a sweet guy that just wants to love you" My big black ass!

Nami ngiyafuna ukuthandwa , after work, friends, fun, studies and the lot... that's what life is about - being loved and giving back the same love to a person that would be special to you ne!

Its scary at times, read the news paper.... what are the articles that frequent the front page = Woman murdered by angry husband, Woman shot in the face by jealous lover.... whats that all about?

I mean if you loved her so much, one misunderstanding should not be worth her blood in your hands.

Think about it now, killing her wil;l cost you her beautiful smile, her love and that same feeling she gave you when you fell in love with her, why would you want to ruin what was once beautiful to you??? Heee, Heee, Heee
Now you'd be spending your life in miseryh thinking of what you have lost @ every waking moment of your stupid life.

Ok, love is felt in the heart... my advice love responsible, don't let abuse come into your relationship, being loved is a gift on its own!

Me on the other habd, I choose to love with my mind, in that way no mushy, lovey feeling will overcloud my judgement.

Just my thoughts

I think it's time women stopped using their sexuality to get whatever they want, that is simply abusing something that is meant to be free....... HHAA!

A lot of our black people sort of confused anger somewhere inside. I often ask myself how SA would've turned out to be had there not been a Steve Biko, Mandela, the Apartheid era, June 16, poverty, the list just goes on.... But what would the so called deep underground bo m'rapper be rapping about - really?

I feel like a hypocrite @ times coz I really and deeply love hip-hop, especially when its done la emzansi but @ the same time I hate listening to emcees that ryhme about shit they don't know anything about... You get this funny one reapping about oppression, the struggle and being exiled mean while he went to Sacred Heart College, lived in Houghton half his life and his best friend is freakin white.... like what the F@!?K is talkin about, he should be more on the Bling Bling Tip, I know I wont buy his album but @least he was honest.

Funny how half the country is trying to be more black while a quater of the other half is still trying hard to master the art of speaking the queens language, not even the way its supposed to be done but rather trying to give useless words a meaning when they don't even appear in the oxford dictionary, since when did "aint" get a meaning???

On a more serious tip, people are being judged every minute - automatically, some will conclude what type of person you are coz of the clothes you are wearing, your hairstyle, your complexion.... endless list but why we just except the next person the way they are nje, I mean that's how they are vele and some chose to look the way they do.

Do you know what's considered as cool these days..... being BLACK, having shady looking hair, raping to a bea and the whole ethnic look being black is more of a trend these days that even white people are getting them lockz and afroz now and to think that back in the day being black was just plain stupid, dirty, undermined and just inferior..... Haaaai Mad-issues indeed.

Join da Club!

So I decided to become a blogger!!!

This after reading Lihwa's blog for quite some time now and well, lets me just say... I'd like to share my thoughts (which are just mad @ times) with other bloggers out there.

Do I really have something interesting so write about?...... Eeeerrr.... NO.. but hey, I might just surprise myself, I'll never know.

All I can say is... Welcome to the Diva's world!!! and right now I really have to go back to work before my black ass is fired!