It has been a long time........... not sure how much I have missed here but I am hoping to catch up soon!!!!
The move to the new place was good and I have gotten used to the place! I have my last exam on Friday.............. lord it has been a while, after I am done with that I will be free~!!!
Having a housemate - a female one is interesting ( and that is all I am willing to say), I still am a floating female who is too picky to get hooked up with just any dude (ngiyinkinga) and work...... Oh, it has been tough but you know in some way this is like school for me..... I learn then make a few mistakes then get taken to management to be disciplined (not that when I do perfect work, no one says anything) atleast at school one got a gold star for good work!
I am grown these days - having sober Friday nights indoors alone with a nice, hot beverage and movies! Trust me, I can brave the cold if I realy want to go out but lately - it's like why, why should I?
Everyday I realise who my true friends really are........ and who are pretending to be and this has been realy interesting - the lengths that people go to, always saying the right things and when I fuck up they just keep quiet!!!!! Not that I do fuck up but I test them by doing something stupid and all I get in return is a smile, my friends would cuss the isht out of me!
And ya, I think I have said this before but being nice to other people definitely does give them wrong expectations or I lead them on or the read too much into my being nice - either way, I now have a new stalker................... I think this is the seventh guy to stalk me!!!! Creepy, very creepy of course someone in my position might actually like the attention but not this cookie, no, no ,no!
I will be back sooner than soon!
Monday, June 22, 2009
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Family.........
Being part of a family yama " choice assorted" aint easy coz in a way it meant that we are different (in a lot of ways) and we're siblings at the same time...........
Today, I am smiling. Simply because I finaly get along very well with my brothers and sisters...... I am still the darkest out of the whole lot though ha,ha,ha! To think that used to bother me so much so that I more than once thought that I was adopted.
We're a cool bunch though (yet again) I'm the "strange" one with sudden outbursts of statements that few people understand!!!!
BTW.....
R.I.P to Goody's mom - the woman who gave birth to one of the most talented and creative writers I know!!!! Qina ndoda.
Today, I am smiling. Simply because I finaly get along very well with my brothers and sisters...... I am still the darkest out of the whole lot though ha,ha,ha! To think that used to bother me so much so that I more than once thought that I was adopted.
We're a cool bunch though (yet again) I'm the "strange" one with sudden outbursts of statements that few people understand!!!!
BTW.....
R.I.P to Goody's mom - the woman who gave birth to one of the most talented and creative writers I know!!!! Qina ndoda.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Oh well..........
Great are the chances of being hated for saying exactly what is on your mind..... apparantly today is my day!
Now I sat and thought about this and you know what, I am ok with that! I mean what could be worse than hearing stories about you from people you don't know well and their source is someone you realy trust?
We see things differently and 4 me..... let me be punished then! I will never stop writing, especially about isht that involve me even in the tiniest way!!!
There, I've said it!
Now I sat and thought about this and you know what, I am ok with that! I mean what could be worse than hearing stories about you from people you don't know well and their source is someone you realy trust?
We see things differently and 4 me..... let me be punished then! I will never stop writing, especially about isht that involve me even in the tiniest way!!!
There, I've said it!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
People...............
Askies but I am moving houses and getting ready for my exams............ Will be back sooner than U expect it!!!!
Peace!
Peace!
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
I just needed to get your opinion on this............ as MEN!
A man wrote:
There is no decent man out there who has no girlfriend or at least a serious partner, even if he is a pedestrian. If he says so, he's lying. No man likes to be alone, even for a few seconds. The other reason is that men by their nature wants to be worked, as in having someone to call their own. They want to be "mothered", but in a different way from kids. They want to be pampered and cared for but not to be told what not to do or do (unlike children). What does a man want: just be there for him and don't judge or say: "I told you so". Love him unconditionally and still tell him you love him even if you know he cheated on you and you told him (every man cheats at some stage and if he is not a "serial killer" everywhere, why dump him and start from scratch as if there are better men). It could make him feel ashamed next time and be careful, if you speak to him with respect. If you want to tell him about his habits that you don't like, do it when you have calmed down and in a loving way. Not when you are angry.
Men are more afraid of being on their own more than women do. I have seen many ladies who have stayed without boyfriends for up to 12 months or more and not seeing anyone, but a guy will find a new girlfriend the very day he drops you. In fact, by the time he confirms the relationship is over, he already has someone in the picture. Men always have a large supply of women to choose from and most of the time, some ladies even try all the tricks in the book to trap a man, especially when they reach that worrisome age 26 or so: By this time, If you don't have a steady boyfriend who might marry you, you might probably be in deep trouble because most guys who will come to you will be just be interested in having fun with you and go. In fact, they could be looking for people younger than you instead.
Guys have programmed themselves to do the following: the lady he calls "Umfazi" is the woman he thinks he might marry if it comes to a push and his mother is starting to complain that he is getting too old to look after himself. That's the lady he will confess to being in love with. Men usually love two women at a time but they don't see any problem with having more "nyatsis" on the side (it's something that you ladies can never get men to stop). "Umfazi" is the woman he will fight for if she is "tampered with". And he usually doesn't mind doing things for her or taking her out every now and then. In other words, she is a future "investment". If any man takes her from him, he could easily get killed. The woman he calls "Umuntu Wami" is the one who satisfies his egoistic and sexual urges. You will see that because he normally doesn't have enough time to see her because he is always "busy" or going to a "function". She is the "nyatsi" and in 99% of the cases, she will always remain one and will never take the number one spot occupied by the "Mfazi" unless a miracle happens. In fact, no "nyatsi" will become a "Umfazi" because if you can become his "nyatsi" then you are probably also somebody else's "nyatsi" besides him.
Ask most guys why they want to get married and they will tell you they are tired of cleaning after themselves or cooking after themselves. Every man needs a woman who will look after him and if you are not prepared to play the wifey role, he will eventually replace you on the number one position with someone who treats him like a king. Men are also very choosy and even more than women. The woman he met at a party will most likely stay that to him: a fun woman. No sensible man is prepared to marry a woman who was being driven around to parties by various guys. You would be lucky if he doesn't know your history. To a man. A history counts. That's why if you think you aspire to get married one day, I advise you to stay away from this lifestyle of being known as a "party animal". Men don't respect such a woman. If you met him at a party, he will never forget that. That's why he might always remind you about the past and want to know how many guys you slept with that you met at parties.
The key to keeping a man is to be accommodating and not be judgemental. If a man is impressed with the way you treat him, he will never leave you. In fact, if he goes away, he will come back running. Most ladies out there don't know how to treat a man. Don't keep reminding a man about the affairs he has had or that he has. Even if you hear rumours try to stay away from people who say them to you because they could be the route to destroying the relationship. How do you know if they are not just jealous of your relationship? Be open with a man and strict but don't judge him. Don't keep reminding him of past mistakes but make him feel that you are the best thing that ever happened to him.
The reason why men date a woman for 6 years and go marry someone new? It's simple: Most probably, you have become a burden because you lost something along the way. There must be a reason. All men want to marry a reliable and respectful woman. Every man knows there's no such thing as a perfect woman. But if you get into a relationship and behave like you are already married to him and dictating terms to him, he will eventually leave. The reason why he will marry someone new is that the time for getting married has come and he can't wait anymore. So he will take what is available and most attractive to him than marry the woman he was with for the past 6 years or so.
Men want comfort and security just like women. He wants the woman he will marry to be fun to be with and not always complaining. Why is it that most ladies start to look like domestic workers the moment they are in a steady relationship? You used to dress up for him the moment you started dating. Your weight was acceptable and you didn't complain much. The man fell in love with that picture of his "dream woman" who is almost angelic. And now, after 3 years of being together, you start feeling like "Mrs Right" and you become the opposite of the woman he fell in love with and when you go out with him, you also start dressing like you are going to clean the outside toilet of someone's yard. You also start pushing him to marry you by always asking when he will marry you. What do you expect a man to do?
As for dating men who have other girlfriends and you are single or unattached. You can't avoid it. Muthu u waniwa kha munwe in the first place. The problem is that he might not be seriously looking for a partner in you and he's just looking for a "stress reliever" . If so, some of the signs are that he will be very impatient with you. He will pressurize you to meet his needs in return for no compromise. If he has time for you in the beginning and the next thing he starts having excuses, you know what to expect. He will never change. With experience, you will come to know the difference between a man who is just playing and one who is serious. The problem with ladies is that they see the warning signs and hang in there just hoping the signs are either wrong or will go away.
Relationships are a gamble. You shouldn't put more efforts than is needed to make a decent relationship work. You must know when to stay and when to run for your life. Don't waste time on something that is not improving. Hanging around with a man who is looking elsewhere will stop you from finding someone who will eventually marry you. Most relationships start the same: they are wonderful. Whether it continues like that is another story which you need to pay good attention to. Stay awake
There is no decent man out there who has no girlfriend or at least a serious partner, even if he is a pedestrian. If he says so, he's lying. No man likes to be alone, even for a few seconds. The other reason is that men by their nature wants to be worked, as in having someone to call their own. They want to be "mothered", but in a different way from kids. They want to be pampered and cared for but not to be told what not to do or do (unlike children). What does a man want: just be there for him and don't judge or say: "I told you so". Love him unconditionally and still tell him you love him even if you know he cheated on you and you told him (every man cheats at some stage and if he is not a "serial killer" everywhere, why dump him and start from scratch as if there are better men). It could make him feel ashamed next time and be careful, if you speak to him with respect. If you want to tell him about his habits that you don't like, do it when you have calmed down and in a loving way. Not when you are angry.
Men are more afraid of being on their own more than women do. I have seen many ladies who have stayed without boyfriends for up to 12 months or more and not seeing anyone, but a guy will find a new girlfriend the very day he drops you. In fact, by the time he confirms the relationship is over, he already has someone in the picture. Men always have a large supply of women to choose from and most of the time, some ladies even try all the tricks in the book to trap a man, especially when they reach that worrisome age 26 or so: By this time, If you don't have a steady boyfriend who might marry you, you might probably be in deep trouble because most guys who will come to you will be just be interested in having fun with you and go. In fact, they could be looking for people younger than you instead.
Guys have programmed themselves to do the following: the lady he calls "Umfazi" is the woman he thinks he might marry if it comes to a push and his mother is starting to complain that he is getting too old to look after himself. That's the lady he will confess to being in love with. Men usually love two women at a time but they don't see any problem with having more "nyatsis" on the side (it's something that you ladies can never get men to stop). "Umfazi" is the woman he will fight for if she is "tampered with". And he usually doesn't mind doing things for her or taking her out every now and then. In other words, she is a future "investment". If any man takes her from him, he could easily get killed. The woman he calls "Umuntu Wami" is the one who satisfies his egoistic and sexual urges. You will see that because he normally doesn't have enough time to see her because he is always "busy" or going to a "function". She is the "nyatsi" and in 99% of the cases, she will always remain one and will never take the number one spot occupied by the "Mfazi" unless a miracle happens. In fact, no "nyatsi" will become a "Umfazi" because if you can become his "nyatsi" then you are probably also somebody else's "nyatsi" besides him.
Ask most guys why they want to get married and they will tell you they are tired of cleaning after themselves or cooking after themselves. Every man needs a woman who will look after him and if you are not prepared to play the wifey role, he will eventually replace you on the number one position with someone who treats him like a king. Men are also very choosy and even more than women. The woman he met at a party will most likely stay that to him: a fun woman. No sensible man is prepared to marry a woman who was being driven around to parties by various guys. You would be lucky if he doesn't know your history. To a man. A history counts. That's why if you think you aspire to get married one day, I advise you to stay away from this lifestyle of being known as a "party animal". Men don't respect such a woman. If you met him at a party, he will never forget that. That's why he might always remind you about the past and want to know how many guys you slept with that you met at parties.
The key to keeping a man is to be accommodating and not be judgemental. If a man is impressed with the way you treat him, he will never leave you. In fact, if he goes away, he will come back running. Most ladies out there don't know how to treat a man. Don't keep reminding a man about the affairs he has had or that he has. Even if you hear rumours try to stay away from people who say them to you because they could be the route to destroying the relationship. How do you know if they are not just jealous of your relationship? Be open with a man and strict but don't judge him. Don't keep reminding him of past mistakes but make him feel that you are the best thing that ever happened to him.
The reason why men date a woman for 6 years and go marry someone new? It's simple: Most probably, you have become a burden because you lost something along the way. There must be a reason. All men want to marry a reliable and respectful woman. Every man knows there's no such thing as a perfect woman. But if you get into a relationship and behave like you are already married to him and dictating terms to him, he will eventually leave. The reason why he will marry someone new is that the time for getting married has come and he can't wait anymore. So he will take what is available and most attractive to him than marry the woman he was with for the past 6 years or so.
Men want comfort and security just like women. He wants the woman he will marry to be fun to be with and not always complaining. Why is it that most ladies start to look like domestic workers the moment they are in a steady relationship? You used to dress up for him the moment you started dating. Your weight was acceptable and you didn't complain much. The man fell in love with that picture of his "dream woman" who is almost angelic. And now, after 3 years of being together, you start feeling like "Mrs Right" and you become the opposite of the woman he fell in love with and when you go out with him, you also start dressing like you are going to clean the outside toilet of someone's yard. You also start pushing him to marry you by always asking when he will marry you. What do you expect a man to do?
As for dating men who have other girlfriends and you are single or unattached. You can't avoid it. Muthu u waniwa kha munwe in the first place. The problem is that he might not be seriously looking for a partner in you and he's just looking for a "stress reliever" . If so, some of the signs are that he will be very impatient with you. He will pressurize you to meet his needs in return for no compromise. If he has time for you in the beginning and the next thing he starts having excuses, you know what to expect. He will never change. With experience, you will come to know the difference between a man who is just playing and one who is serious. The problem with ladies is that they see the warning signs and hang in there just hoping the signs are either wrong or will go away.
Relationships are a gamble. You shouldn't put more efforts than is needed to make a decent relationship work. You must know when to stay and when to run for your life. Don't waste time on something that is not improving. Hanging around with a man who is looking elsewhere will stop you from finding someone who will eventually marry you. Most relationships start the same: they are wonderful. Whether it continues like that is another story which you need to pay good attention to. Stay awake
Friday, May 15, 2009
Darn it... I can't help wanting to talk about me and the somewhat crazy isht that happens in this my life!
I really don't know what is worse.....
Me being told that I am apparently in a porno-video made by some strange dudes in Nelspruit. At first I thought bullshit coz I know for a fact that it doesn't exist. I have never been in any room besides News Cafe with them.
Now this is the shit that people go around telling to other people, some who may just be potential lovers/baby-daddy/hubby - who knows, but I must say that it is disturbing to hear such - especially when you are trying to enjoy a Sunday evening.
I am a sex starved female and there are such rumours are spreading like swine-flu! At a point I thought "oh, W.T.F I might as well be actually doing what they say I am doing" but fortunately my senses came back before I could dial up this hot, yummy gentleman that I have had very unholy thoughts of.
I am not that type of person, but being as misunderstood as I am..... who'll care to listen. I will chill with the hope that the truth will come out - somehow! Playing defensive all the time kinda looks foolish!
Then.......... there is a dude at work bugging me like crazy, the last thing I could evr do is shag a person I have to work with, awkwardness aint my thing!!!! Besides I'd have to think happy thought about another man to get me going!!!!
I am moving out of my 1 bed-flat, bye-bye freedom and roaming around in the nude!!!!
An ex of mine...... (check 2007 posts) recently contacted me after 2 years of silence and he wants to meet. Normally I would tell him to fuck-off but I chose to be nice this time. I feel sorry for the guy.... cosidering the way I ended it with him, shame.... the least he deserves is an answer! So I am taking him out for supper. Do ya'll think that is too much from my side?
I ask this coz I have noticed that when ex's sense that you might be having a problem, they'll "pity" you and you'll end up making out and that will lead him to this he was the best this to ever happen in your life,that you can't be without him...... you know such idiotic thoughts nje!!!!!
Hollar!
Me being told that I am apparently in a porno-video made by some strange dudes in Nelspruit. At first I thought bullshit coz I know for a fact that it doesn't exist. I have never been in any room besides News Cafe with them.
Now this is the shit that people go around telling to other people, some who may just be potential lovers/baby-daddy/hubby - who knows, but I must say that it is disturbing to hear such - especially when you are trying to enjoy a Sunday evening.
I am a sex starved female and there are such rumours are spreading like swine-flu! At a point I thought "oh, W.T.F I might as well be actually doing what they say I am doing" but fortunately my senses came back before I could dial up this hot, yummy gentleman that I have had very unholy thoughts of.
I am not that type of person, but being as misunderstood as I am..... who'll care to listen. I will chill with the hope that the truth will come out - somehow! Playing defensive all the time kinda looks foolish!
Then.......... there is a dude at work bugging me like crazy, the last thing I could evr do is shag a person I have to work with, awkwardness aint my thing!!!! Besides I'd have to think happy thought about another man to get me going!!!!
I am moving out of my 1 bed-flat, bye-bye freedom and roaming around in the nude!!!!
An ex of mine...... (check 2007 posts) recently contacted me after 2 years of silence and he wants to meet. Normally I would tell him to fuck-off but I chose to be nice this time. I feel sorry for the guy.... cosidering the way I ended it with him, shame.... the least he deserves is an answer! So I am taking him out for supper. Do ya'll think that is too much from my side?
I ask this coz I have noticed that when ex's sense that you might be having a problem, they'll "pity" you and you'll end up making out and that will lead him to this he was the best this to ever happen in your life,that you can't be without him...... you know such idiotic thoughts nje!!!!!
Hollar!
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
More on Mfundo............. and the Coke ad.
Mfundo (who is behind the latest series of Coke adverts) has been busy this past week, finding out that Teko Modise and Mandla Masango will be helping out, that Coke will support him improving his advert, and that he has received so much support from South Africa as a whole. Not many 21 year-olds can say that they have been given such an amazing opportunity.
This said, Teko and Mandla did come in and help with the boys improving their moves and the result is absolutely hilarious. Both Teko and Mandla use unorthodox training methods, such as Pogo Sticks, and horns on a helmet, but these do seem to work. Take a look at Mpho’s encounter with Mandla ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnKNk438zWM) and Titch’s experience with Teko ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L8yQ9ifhg4s). These will be aired throughout this week!
This said, Teko and Mandla did come in and help with the boys improving their moves and the result is absolutely hilarious. Both Teko and Mandla use unorthodox training methods, such as Pogo Sticks, and horns on a helmet, but these do seem to work. Take a look at Mpho’s encounter with Mandla ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnKNk438zWM) and Titch’s experience with Teko ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L8yQ9ifhg4s). These will be aired throughout this week!
Friday, May 8, 2009
Ad's, Ho'z and Amadlozi....
Oh what a busy week I've had.....
Almost had forgotten how I actually looked like, havin no time to look in the mirror properly and I missed coming in here dearly. So I am stealing a few minutes of my working time to update ya'll.
I had tons of issues to bitch about the entire week but I guess I got over them so I'm gon' be nice. talking about nice, I am actually a very nice person that tolerates the most f*cked up nonsense.
Like my one friend expecting to come to here rescue everytime she is bored but when I am the one who needs her company - she is either sleeping with the man or they want to have quality time. Yeah, I thought maybe I should understand as I do not have a man anymore.... but when shit goes wrong between her and her man, I have to be there!!!! Now do ya'll think that is fair in any way?????
This ia a person I have chilled with almost every weekend for 2 years then suddenly there was none of that. Haai......
On the tip of Men, the Lord I dig men but darn it there are just a few that know how to make one dislike them.
Take this dude that we were with at a party, he was cool in the beginning until we all (me, the girls and him) went to my place to drink some more and get some munchies. He went off and fell asleep on my couch, when I tried waking him up he said that he was much too drunk to drive back home and asked if he can just nap for a lil' bit. Me being me, I showed him the bedroom and he went. I took the girls home and when I came back, there the dude was sleeping naked on my bed......... It gets better..........he starts calling baby/sweety!!!! WTF
So I got into my tracksuite (PJ's are easy to take off) and slept with my legs crossed, it looked a bit stupid but hey, I wasn't about to let some old dude get me ( we have to do things the Khensy way). He tried all the stunts one can think off but I was just like "N*gga f*ck off and sleep or get the F*ck outta my house!!! He slept, in the morning he woke up to tell me that "amadlozi akhe angeke ajabule ngoba ulale eceleni komfazi wangameza lutho".
Now seriously which idoit buys that story?
He forgot his watch at my place so now I have to carry it evrywhere I go incase I bump into him, He is no longer welcomed at my place.
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On a diff tip.....
I saw Mfundo Mkhize's ad on the different channels this week, I must admit that the first time I saw it I didn't understand what the hell was going on..... I saw too many things at the same time. The more I saw it the better I sorta got the whole plot of it.
If I were to be asked what I thought about it, I'd say: Funny, def different from any ad I've ever seen!!! I haven't heard what other people think about it yet, it would interesting to hear other opinions afterall we all don't see think the same right?!?
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I have a new skeem, I am still trying to understand what the hell goes on in that chick's mind! She just goes with the flow - you know, the flow that I hate going with!!!! To the extend I saw her shagging 3 diff dudes in 1 weekend!!!! Yoh, that was just too deep baba. I mean wo does that in this day and age?????
So I avoided the heavy confrontation, ya'll know I was gon' tripp on her for her stunts but I am waiting to see if that will repeat itself, coz if it does I'll be on her case - even if she hates me for it..... I would have still said my piece!!!!
She's so pretty and smart, I do not undestand whay she does this coz I know it aint for money!!!
Now I know I am not exactly an angel here but dang man, sometimes one has to keep good, I'd hate to be known as a slut in a small town!!!!
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Enjoy the weekend!!!!
Almost had forgotten how I actually looked like, havin no time to look in the mirror properly and I missed coming in here dearly. So I am stealing a few minutes of my working time to update ya'll.
I had tons of issues to bitch about the entire week but I guess I got over them so I'm gon' be nice. talking about nice, I am actually a very nice person that tolerates the most f*cked up nonsense.
Like my one friend expecting to come to here rescue everytime she is bored but when I am the one who needs her company - she is either sleeping with the man or they want to have quality time. Yeah, I thought maybe I should understand as I do not have a man anymore.... but when shit goes wrong between her and her man, I have to be there!!!! Now do ya'll think that is fair in any way?????
This ia a person I have chilled with almost every weekend for 2 years then suddenly there was none of that. Haai......
On the tip of Men, the Lord I dig men but darn it there are just a few that know how to make one dislike them.
Take this dude that we were with at a party, he was cool in the beginning until we all (me, the girls and him) went to my place to drink some more and get some munchies. He went off and fell asleep on my couch, when I tried waking him up he said that he was much too drunk to drive back home and asked if he can just nap for a lil' bit. Me being me, I showed him the bedroom and he went. I took the girls home and when I came back, there the dude was sleeping naked on my bed......... It gets better..........he starts calling baby/sweety!!!! WTF
So I got into my tracksuite (PJ's are easy to take off) and slept with my legs crossed, it looked a bit stupid but hey, I wasn't about to let some old dude get me ( we have to do things the Khensy way). He tried all the stunts one can think off but I was just like "N*gga f*ck off and sleep or get the F*ck outta my house!!! He slept, in the morning he woke up to tell me that "amadlozi akhe angeke ajabule ngoba ulale eceleni komfazi wangameza lutho".
Now seriously which idoit buys that story?
He forgot his watch at my place so now I have to carry it evrywhere I go incase I bump into him, He is no longer welcomed at my place.
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On a diff tip.....
I saw Mfundo Mkhize's ad on the different channels this week, I must admit that the first time I saw it I didn't understand what the hell was going on..... I saw too many things at the same time. The more I saw it the better I sorta got the whole plot of it.
If I were to be asked what I thought about it, I'd say: Funny, def different from any ad I've ever seen!!! I haven't heard what other people think about it yet, it would interesting to hear other opinions afterall we all don't see think the same right?!?
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I have a new skeem, I am still trying to understand what the hell goes on in that chick's mind! She just goes with the flow - you know, the flow that I hate going with!!!! To the extend I saw her shagging 3 diff dudes in 1 weekend!!!! Yoh, that was just too deep baba. I mean wo does that in this day and age?????
So I avoided the heavy confrontation, ya'll know I was gon' tripp on her for her stunts but I am waiting to see if that will repeat itself, coz if it does I'll be on her case - even if she hates me for it..... I would have still said my piece!!!!
She's so pretty and smart, I do not undestand whay she does this coz I know it aint for money!!!
Now I know I am not exactly an angel here but dang man, sometimes one has to keep good, I'd hate to be known as a slut in a small town!!!!
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Enjoy the weekend!!!!
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Something New........ and it is not about ME!
Watch out for Mfundo and his ad in the next few days.
After reading this profile on him, I had one of those feelings I get when I see people who are passionate about what they do.... you know the feeling that I'm talking about mos????
Ya, the one that makes you feel proud to be young, black and gifted at this time and country. That same one that makes you want to get off your lazy ass and do it...... (it being what you've always wanted to do but was never quite sure how to go about it).
I will be updating you guys on him soon!
Am hoping for interview........ hint, hint (*_*)!
After reading this profile on him, I had one of those feelings I get when I see people who are passionate about what they do.... you know the feeling that I'm talking about mos????
Ya, the one that makes you feel proud to be young, black and gifted at this time and country. That same one that makes you want to get off your lazy ass and do it...... (it being what you've always wanted to do but was never quite sure how to go about it).
I will be updating you guys on him soon!
Am hoping for interview........ hint, hint (*_*)!
Friday, April 24, 2009
Writing tests on a Saturday is the pits but I wanted to study part-time so I am dealing with it.
Ey, the voting went well.... except for minor issues like people getting there drunk and having out bursts of who everyone else should vote for, It was all good.
Yazi abantu mara.
I decided to have an early start to the day so I got to the office at 06H00. I never thought I could ever do that in my life. I've always seen myself as a "will not work for a boss" person but you know what things happen in life and you soon find yourself doing what you HAVE to do and not what you want to do!!!!
Took me being broke to figure that one out, if I had my way I would just do me for the rest of my life and tune people that I do not have to answer to them. Ha, ha, ha.........
Life is a sweet ass bitch sometimes and I love it anyways!
Enjoy your weekend my beautiful people!!!!
Ey, the voting went well.... except for minor issues like people getting there drunk and having out bursts of who everyone else should vote for, It was all good.
Yazi abantu mara.
I decided to have an early start to the day so I got to the office at 06H00. I never thought I could ever do that in my life. I've always seen myself as a "will not work for a boss" person but you know what things happen in life and you soon find yourself doing what you HAVE to do and not what you want to do!!!!
Took me being broke to figure that one out, if I had my way I would just do me for the rest of my life and tune people that I do not have to answer to them. Ha, ha, ha.........
Life is a sweet ass bitch sometimes and I love it anyways!
Enjoy your weekend my beautiful people!!!!
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
This had to be the worst day at the work place 4 me....
But I will NOT let that mess up my year!!!
Funny thing happened over the weekend, One man was able to make me shut the hell up.
Story:
Obviously on Friday I did my "get smashed" thing, as I normally do...... I had an interesting night I say. I was told that I think "I am all that" as I refused to date some of the guys around Nelspruit, one dude even confessed to have been loving me "unconditionally" for the last three years! Yeah right........ I was more on some tip of "you gotta be kidding me".
The usual political debate took place (honestlt, people seem to think they sound smarter if they justify isht about the ANC. Not hating on the party but darn it, its every where - one cannot enjoy a night out with out ending the night with a Msholozi and Umkhonto wesizwe lecture from people who like to pretend like they were in the struggle).
"Can't I just get drunk in peace" was my final statement before deciding to head home!
Saturday Morning: I got a call from some dude I met when I was still with Ziyaphenduka Promotions, back in the day (Meaning, in November). He was at work and I was there to sign a contract, he saw me from far and decided to mack and my ass and pester the guy I came to meet to give him my number..... So he called ke and asked if he could come see me and I was like Ok, thinking that he can't possible drive all the way from Limpopo just to see lil' old me. Much to my surprise, the dude called me again as he drove pass Lydenburg and then I started to get worried. Here I was thinking " This man is sick". Anyways, we agreed that I would see him at around 18H00 and so I got ready and made myself look cute.
We went to Kwassa Grill right (same scene of the previous night debauchery I might add), the man rocked up there with his lil' brother and his friend from le lababuya khona. The friend was on some "where your hot friends at?" tip and I was like "Uhm, I don't have those.... as you can see I have a lot of male friends!" - The dude had no front teeth in front (it might be fashionable in the Cape but up here - that isht don't fly) and I didn't want to be blamed for anything, yes! People are that shallow!!!
Long story short: The man ran away and left me with a bill. How dodge can one be after claiming that they live a high life. Shooo!!!
I was pissed off!!!! No lies!!!!
But I will NOT let that mess up my year!!!
Funny thing happened over the weekend, One man was able to make me shut the hell up.
Story:
Obviously on Friday I did my "get smashed" thing, as I normally do...... I had an interesting night I say. I was told that I think "I am all that" as I refused to date some of the guys around Nelspruit, one dude even confessed to have been loving me "unconditionally" for the last three years! Yeah right........ I was more on some tip of "you gotta be kidding me".
The usual political debate took place (honestlt, people seem to think they sound smarter if they justify isht about the ANC. Not hating on the party but darn it, its every where - one cannot enjoy a night out with out ending the night with a Msholozi and Umkhonto wesizwe lecture from people who like to pretend like they were in the struggle).
"Can't I just get drunk in peace" was my final statement before deciding to head home!
Saturday Morning: I got a call from some dude I met when I was still with Ziyaphenduka Promotions, back in the day (Meaning, in November). He was at work and I was there to sign a contract, he saw me from far and decided to mack and my ass and pester the guy I came to meet to give him my number..... So he called ke and asked if he could come see me and I was like Ok, thinking that he can't possible drive all the way from Limpopo just to see lil' old me. Much to my surprise, the dude called me again as he drove pass Lydenburg and then I started to get worried. Here I was thinking " This man is sick". Anyways, we agreed that I would see him at around 18H00 and so I got ready and made myself look cute.
We went to Kwassa Grill right (same scene of the previous night debauchery I might add), the man rocked up there with his lil' brother and his friend from le lababuya khona. The friend was on some "where your hot friends at?" tip and I was like "Uhm, I don't have those.... as you can see I have a lot of male friends!" - The dude had no front teeth in front (it might be fashionable in the Cape but up here - that isht don't fly) and I didn't want to be blamed for anything, yes! People are that shallow!!!
Long story short: The man ran away and left me with a bill. How dodge can one be after claiming that they live a high life. Shooo!!!
I was pissed off!!!! No lies!!!!
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Sometimes I hate RnB songs........
They make me realise that I actually have never really been in love! Though sometimes I felt a bit of it. There have been times when I just felt like I loved my ex's as friends or brothers..... and then I would just call it quits in my head.
There is only 1 ex that I dumped, and for the rest...... I would just disappear on them, like move to a new place and avoid their calls until they give up. But the world is a small place so after a while I would bump into them and wish 4 a place to hide - I just didn't know what to say to them.
I'm almost sure that they thought "that evil biatch". Oh well........
So now I have R.Kelly's Looking for love song stuck in my head.
What is my take on relationships???
Will answer that soon!!!
They make me realise that I actually have never really been in love! Though sometimes I felt a bit of it. There have been times when I just felt like I loved my ex's as friends or brothers..... and then I would just call it quits in my head.
There is only 1 ex that I dumped, and for the rest...... I would just disappear on them, like move to a new place and avoid their calls until they give up. But the world is a small place so after a while I would bump into them and wish 4 a place to hide - I just didn't know what to say to them.
I'm almost sure that they thought "that evil biatch". Oh well........
So now I have R.Kelly's Looking for love song stuck in my head.
What is my take on relationships???
Will answer that soon!!!
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
The weekend I had..........
I absolutely enjoyed my long weekend, except for the guilt of not going to church everything else was pretty much smooth.
Thursday night saw me meeting up with old friends and chilling at News for the usual getting smashed sessions. At about 2am Msholozi's supporters started singing those songs - that do NOT sound like happy songs at all- and started insulting a group of dudes in their 20's I think, telling them that they are amakwerekwere a Mugabe and that they should go back to where they come from...... funny story coz the dudes were born and bred in NST.
Then there were the old Madalas that want to revive their youth by shagging lil' kids, the drinks were flowing and I did not complain. From there I found myself waking up at a penthouse with a bottle of heineken in my hand and the way I was sleeping just showed that I wasn't about to give it up.
I went to the bathroom to wash my face and bumped to a naked man I last saw smoking a cigar in my car. I didn't ask questions..... but sure got answers and a he suggested that I move into the penthouse (a beautiful on at that) by month end!!!! My answer was no though I must admit.... I was tempted to say otherwise. What scared me was the voodoo isht that was around the place! HHa, we all know that abo darkie like using funny stuff at times.
Saturday, I went to Madumane's CD launch.... wasn't bad at all, I got a chance to catch up with a few friends and was a bitch shocked when one rocked up with a girl we all know has been a whore since high school. Now I didn't know that they had a thing going on until the chick accused me of wanting her man...... wait let me rewind that, I was standing by the bar counter waiting for my drinks when my friend came up and gave me a hug as we had not seen each other in a long time, dude lives in Jozi, then she came and I said hi to her as she stood next to him as well..... she mentioned something about shooters and I was like "yeah, actually let me get some" I asked the dude if he would like to have one and then the beef started.
I laughed coz I just did not see the reason for me to answer especially after the dude kept quiet. I just wanted to slap her there and then.... but one of my guy friends came to take me away....
Thursday night saw me meeting up with old friends and chilling at News for the usual getting smashed sessions. At about 2am Msholozi's supporters started singing those songs - that do NOT sound like happy songs at all- and started insulting a group of dudes in their 20's I think, telling them that they are amakwerekwere a Mugabe and that they should go back to where they come from...... funny story coz the dudes were born and bred in NST.
Then there were the old Madalas that want to revive their youth by shagging lil' kids, the drinks were flowing and I did not complain. From there I found myself waking up at a penthouse with a bottle of heineken in my hand and the way I was sleeping just showed that I wasn't about to give it up.
I went to the bathroom to wash my face and bumped to a naked man I last saw smoking a cigar in my car. I didn't ask questions..... but sure got answers and a he suggested that I move into the penthouse (a beautiful on at that) by month end!!!! My answer was no though I must admit.... I was tempted to say otherwise. What scared me was the voodoo isht that was around the place! HHa, we all know that abo darkie like using funny stuff at times.
Saturday, I went to Madumane's CD launch.... wasn't bad at all, I got a chance to catch up with a few friends and was a bitch shocked when one rocked up with a girl we all know has been a whore since high school. Now I didn't know that they had a thing going on until the chick accused me of wanting her man...... wait let me rewind that, I was standing by the bar counter waiting for my drinks when my friend came up and gave me a hug as we had not seen each other in a long time, dude lives in Jozi, then she came and I said hi to her as she stood next to him as well..... she mentioned something about shooters and I was like "yeah, actually let me get some" I asked the dude if he would like to have one and then the beef started.
I laughed coz I just did not see the reason for me to answer especially after the dude kept quiet. I just wanted to slap her there and then.... but one of my guy friends came to take me away....
I spent the rest of my weeekend at home.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
This and that....
This posting in a rush thing is really not working coz I hardly get time to fix typos or read what I wrote, but what can I say..... I need to invest in these 3G-do broad bands-en wat ook al that they advertise everywhere.
I am just old school like that, as in I still used my second pc that mom bought for me about 6years ago!!!
If I don't strangle myself before the end of the day, I'd be officially a very tolerant person, Jacaranda RM FM is getting on my nerves!!!! Reason - Lack of creativity I think, not to mention the very predictable song-line up. I have to listen to that thing every day at the office.
Back to me and my Gold-Mining lessons:
It is un-do-able, my "teacher" keeps pointing me at direction I will NOT take. I mean everybody that knows me would know that I cannot stand people who repeat your idea and pass it as their own to other people....... to sound smarter I think. Now on Friday, I was out doing my usual "Friday Intoxica-relaxation" thing with 2 friends and we were bouncing off ideas about a lot of things mainly music (they are about to drop albums - do look out for them), making money in a fun way, how certain companies market themselves, politricks and the sort.
Now this man in a beige suite and them long shoes and eaves drops on our conversation then way later on when coming back from the loo, I walked pass his table and heard him saying the exact things we were going on about.... then later he had the nerve to play flirty with me asking what I'm drinking and stuff!
Now the girl who is supposed to be "giving me lessons on how to catch gold mines" advises me to go with the "flow".
That was it for the night for me. She had to be drinking something that makes her see sense where there is none!!!! The guy was trying to get whatever he possibly can, others may have had fallen for that but not this biatch, she aint crazy like that!!!!
Anyways I have to go do what I get paid to do.
I am just old school like that, as in I still used my second pc that mom bought for me about 6years ago!!!
If I don't strangle myself before the end of the day, I'd be officially a very tolerant person, Jacaranda RM FM is getting on my nerves!!!! Reason - Lack of creativity I think, not to mention the very predictable song-line up. I have to listen to that thing every day at the office.
Back to me and my Gold-Mining lessons:
It is un-do-able, my "teacher" keeps pointing me at direction I will NOT take. I mean everybody that knows me would know that I cannot stand people who repeat your idea and pass it as their own to other people....... to sound smarter I think. Now on Friday, I was out doing my usual "Friday Intoxica-relaxation" thing with 2 friends and we were bouncing off ideas about a lot of things mainly music (they are about to drop albums - do look out for them), making money in a fun way, how certain companies market themselves, politricks and the sort.
Now this man in a beige suite and them long shoes and eaves drops on our conversation then way later on when coming back from the loo, I walked pass his table and heard him saying the exact things we were going on about.... then later he had the nerve to play flirty with me asking what I'm drinking and stuff!
Now the girl who is supposed to be "giving me lessons on how to catch gold mines" advises me to go with the "flow".
That was it for the night for me. She had to be drinking something that makes her see sense where there is none!!!! The guy was trying to get whatever he possibly can, others may have had fallen for that but not this biatch, she aint crazy like that!!!!
Anyways I have to go do what I get paid to do.
Monday, April 6, 2009
While my "How to be a Gold-Digger" lessons are on a slow start, I had interesting things happening in my life. Not much life changing but interesting none the less!
On Sunday.... just yesterday that is, I decided to go to Lekazi (Kanyamazane - the township outside Nelspruit) (BTW, I used to live there at some stage of my life). I was with Pam and she had never seen my former home (I show anybody who cares to see) and I decided to go visit the lovely old lady that used to feed me coz I've always been lazy to make food and chew. My old time friend was there and was actually on her way to "besoek" her brother at the prison, I offered to take her there as this, for me, was going to be going to an excursion of some sort (LoL). We did things as per procedure then we went in in waited for the brother to be called and stuff.
While waiting, we had a chat - and she was teasing me about me not having a man or some isht similar to that and said that she would make it her personal mission to find me one - in PRISON. My thoughts were : Oh, hell to da NO! A rehabilitated criminal who has been sex starved for lawd knows how long and probably been mad a bitch by other prisoners!!!! Thanks but no Thanks....
Just then the brother came through..... we were on the other side of the glass and steel cage thing! Then there he was..... The very first guy I thought I loved in my life!!!! Dressed in orange overalls and looking pale, sad and just miserable. I couldn't contain myself.... I ran off and came back again, mouth wide open as I was still trying to understand how he went from being a sweet boy (who cheated on me coz I wouldn't give it up) to a man arrested for armed robbery??? It was just so weird!!!!
We had a short almost meaningless talk - I honestly didn't know what to say to him, I hadn't seen him in about 10years. He asked that I buy him a coke, I just gave him a R100 so he can do whatever with it...... I don't know what goes on in there. I just felt sorry for him and knowing his father.... he probably doesn't much visits from family or friends - he never had much of those (shy).
I just couldn't believe it, all I kept saying for the rest of that day was "Hawu, Usfiso nkosi yami".
He asked for my number and gave him a wrong one, I have no reason really for doing that except that I feared him in some way.
Wow, how people's lives change nje. Says a lot about the decision we make regarding our lives!!!
Hello people.
On Sunday.... just yesterday that is, I decided to go to Lekazi (Kanyamazane - the township outside Nelspruit) (BTW, I used to live there at some stage of my life). I was with Pam and she had never seen my former home (I show anybody who cares to see) and I decided to go visit the lovely old lady that used to feed me coz I've always been lazy to make food and chew. My old time friend was there and was actually on her way to "besoek" her brother at the prison, I offered to take her there as this, for me, was going to be going to an excursion of some sort (LoL). We did things as per procedure then we went in in waited for the brother to be called and stuff.
While waiting, we had a chat - and she was teasing me about me not having a man or some isht similar to that and said that she would make it her personal mission to find me one - in PRISON. My thoughts were : Oh, hell to da NO! A rehabilitated criminal who has been sex starved for lawd knows how long and probably been mad a bitch by other prisoners!!!! Thanks but no Thanks....
Just then the brother came through..... we were on the other side of the glass and steel cage thing! Then there he was..... The very first guy I thought I loved in my life!!!! Dressed in orange overalls and looking pale, sad and just miserable. I couldn't contain myself.... I ran off and came back again, mouth wide open as I was still trying to understand how he went from being a sweet boy (who cheated on me coz I wouldn't give it up) to a man arrested for armed robbery??? It was just so weird!!!!
We had a short almost meaningless talk - I honestly didn't know what to say to him, I hadn't seen him in about 10years. He asked that I buy him a coke, I just gave him a R100 so he can do whatever with it...... I don't know what goes on in there. I just felt sorry for him and knowing his father.... he probably doesn't much visits from family or friends - he never had much of those (shy).
I just couldn't believe it, all I kept saying for the rest of that day was "Hawu, Usfiso nkosi yami".
He asked for my number and gave him a wrong one, I have no reason really for doing that except that I feared him in some way.
Wow, how people's lives change nje. Says a lot about the decision we make regarding our lives!!!
Hello people.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
I'm being taught how to become a Gold Digger!
Good Morninng world..........
Question:
What the hell happened to good, honest love???
I mean, have we (Women & Men) all become these opportunists that only love the people we can gain certain things from other than old simple love.
It is shocking to see the extremes that some people go to, to "bag" so called conquests. This is somethings that happens - race and age doesn't matter.
This bugs me as much as "going with the flow" does. You know when you can't tell a person that you love them coz "oh my word, it's too early for that, you just have to go with the flow", I've asked this before..... How many flows does one have to go with before normal relationship. What happened to that old school lovin that our folks used to tell us about?
It's true what "they" say about us never finding that love that people felf in their hearts, when people used to be willing to do anything for love.
We, at this day... decide on who to love. It must be a strategic decision they say!
You'll be bitch-slapped as a man telling a girl that all you have to offer is love! What the fcuk will love do for her at the end of the day? It won't feed her or get her a townhouse and a ride. If I were a man, I'd be on some "Bitch, go get a job and buy your own isht!".
I am a joke to my friends coz I always hook up with broke niggas and if there is a monied man interested, I just cannot bring myself to be on a "let's blow his money" tip. Angazi nje!
So a chick I've recently met - who claims to be the Ultimated gold digger, she says Khanyi Mbau aint got shit on her!!! ha, ha, anyways she has taken it upon herself to teach how not to hook up with (and I quote) "useless niggaz who can't do shit for you besides sending you texts with too much nyif-nyaf and tellin you that you're the best thing to ever happen to them!"
I will fill you in on how that works out!!!
Question:
What the hell happened to good, honest love???
I mean, have we (Women & Men) all become these opportunists that only love the people we can gain certain things from other than old simple love.
It is shocking to see the extremes that some people go to, to "bag" so called conquests. This is somethings that happens - race and age doesn't matter.
This bugs me as much as "going with the flow" does. You know when you can't tell a person that you love them coz "oh my word, it's too early for that, you just have to go with the flow", I've asked this before..... How many flows does one have to go with before normal relationship. What happened to that old school lovin that our folks used to tell us about?
It's true what "they" say about us never finding that love that people felf in their hearts, when people used to be willing to do anything for love.
We, at this day... decide on who to love. It must be a strategic decision they say!
You'll be bitch-slapped as a man telling a girl that all you have to offer is love! What the fcuk will love do for her at the end of the day? It won't feed her or get her a townhouse and a ride. If I were a man, I'd be on some "Bitch, go get a job and buy your own isht!".
I am a joke to my friends coz I always hook up with broke niggas and if there is a monied man interested, I just cannot bring myself to be on a "let's blow his money" tip. Angazi nje!
So a chick I've recently met - who claims to be the Ultimated gold digger, she says Khanyi Mbau aint got shit on her!!! ha, ha, anyways she has taken it upon herself to teach how not to hook up with (and I quote) "useless niggaz who can't do shit for you besides sending you texts with too much nyif-nyaf and tellin you that you're the best thing to ever happen to them!"
I will fill you in on how that works out!!!
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Looking at the brighter side of isht!
With all the bad things that have been happening to me........ I have decided to think positively about it.
I won't hate on a dude wearing a Manchester Tshirt (Dude who damaged my ride was wearing that), I will not do what most people do when they are single (shagging anything that walks just coz they can), I will not slack off at work (though it gets tough at times), and I will not talk badly about some people (even though they are idiots of note).
I am going to try and see the positive side of everything I find myself in, for instance..... they might have fcuked my my car but atleast I still have one, I didn't get hurt or I didn't run over a person or get into an accident.... I mean that's good right???? Even though I am spending a few thousands fixing my ride, the thing is.... I can always work harder to get more of them and the most positive part of that = I won't drink as much coz I will be too broke to afford booze!!! Now that (as much as I hate the thought of going for a weekend without an Amstel or Heineken) is good and healthy!!!!
I have a story to tell about a man on a mission @ the work place.......... But for now I have to go home!
Later!
I won't hate on a dude wearing a Manchester Tshirt (Dude who damaged my ride was wearing that), I will not do what most people do when they are single (shagging anything that walks just coz they can), I will not slack off at work (though it gets tough at times), and I will not talk badly about some people (even though they are idiots of note).
I am going to try and see the positive side of everything I find myself in, for instance..... they might have fcuked my my car but atleast I still have one, I didn't get hurt or I didn't run over a person or get into an accident.... I mean that's good right???? Even though I am spending a few thousands fixing my ride, the thing is.... I can always work harder to get more of them and the most positive part of that = I won't drink as much coz I will be too broke to afford booze!!! Now that (as much as I hate the thought of going for a weekend without an Amstel or Heineken) is good and healthy!!!!
I have a story to tell about a man on a mission @ the work place.......... But for now I have to go home!
Later!
Monday, March 23, 2009
I need to get something out of my chest.........
Our SAPS sucks ass big time!
Why??????
This morning I woke up to find my neighbour trying to tackle some moron who was trying to break into my car. He fcuked up the door on the passanger side, he didn't get a chance to take anything though.
Not so long ago some idiot stole my radio and now this... it is just out of hand and now what pisses me off the most is that they are costing me a hell lot of money. I have to pay for every isht they damage on my baby. To top it of,they seem to be only interestet in my ride only. There was a Golf, Polo and Sting parked next to mine but no they want my Corsa-rtjie!!!!
Well then off I went to the police station after calling in and waiting for them to come. I went in and it was jus a horrid expirience (I hardly go to that place, especially to report crime) and the service was terrible.... not, it was worse than terrible.
how I wish I had a scanner right now so you could see the piece of paper they gave me as reference. Oh and it gets better..... the lady that was taking down the statement refused to answer some of my questions regarding their procedures when it comes to cases like mine and if the finger printing people could come do their thing.
All that was pretty useless so I gave up after they gave a piece of paper with the SAPS stamp and some OB number.
That was on Monday. I have been hectically busy and car-less since then but now I am sorted! Apart from the unexpected expense of fixing my car........ all is good,it's gon be a long month, a long and broken one I say.
I am trying to update ya'll on as much as I can so........
I have my first gig as a dj next week, I'm not good yet but you know what I hope to hook up those tunes once have the crowd there is sloshed.
I am so writing a letter to MP News on how crappy our police service is.
Askies for disappearing like that but you know how it is when you work for someone else!!! They say jump, U ask how high - Then pretend to be satisfied with your job when friends ask you how work is!!!! Life????
I've had 2 breakdowns recently!!!! Won't into too much detail though.
Hollar.
Our SAPS sucks ass big time!
Why??????
This morning I woke up to find my neighbour trying to tackle some moron who was trying to break into my car. He fcuked up the door on the passanger side, he didn't get a chance to take anything though.
Not so long ago some idiot stole my radio and now this... it is just out of hand and now what pisses me off the most is that they are costing me a hell lot of money. I have to pay for every isht they damage on my baby. To top it of,they seem to be only interestet in my ride only. There was a Golf, Polo and Sting parked next to mine but no they want my Corsa-rtjie!!!!
Well then off I went to the police station after calling in and waiting for them to come. I went in and it was jus a horrid expirience (I hardly go to that place, especially to report crime) and the service was terrible.... not, it was worse than terrible.
how I wish I had a scanner right now so you could see the piece of paper they gave me as reference. Oh and it gets better..... the lady that was taking down the statement refused to answer some of my questions regarding their procedures when it comes to cases like mine and if the finger printing people could come do their thing.
All that was pretty useless so I gave up after they gave a piece of paper with the SAPS stamp and some OB number.
That was on Monday. I have been hectically busy and car-less since then but now I am sorted! Apart from the unexpected expense of fixing my car........ all is good,it's gon be a long month, a long and broken one I say.
I am trying to update ya'll on as much as I can so........
I have my first gig as a dj next week, I'm not good yet but you know what I hope to hook up those tunes once have the crowd there is sloshed.
I am so writing a letter to MP News on how crappy our police service is.
Askies for disappearing like that but you know how it is when you work for someone else!!! They say jump, U ask how high - Then pretend to be satisfied with your job when friends ask you how work is!!!! Life????
I've had 2 breakdowns recently!!!! Won't into too much detail though.
Hollar.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Just so ya'll know...... they say I spend too much time on the "net", so I have to disappear for about a week or so!!! I have worked at a place where there are internet usage reports! Really, they have such here and it is darn frustrating, more so cos I cannot have a decent conversation with the people I work with.
But I am not going to bitch about that a lot. I promised to change and do less of that so here's to paying $ at a internet cafe so I can blog. yes, my phone is old like that, I can't do fokol on it.
Don't miss me too much!!!!
Later!
But I am not going to bitch about that a lot. I promised to change and do less of that so here's to paying $ at a internet cafe so I can blog. yes, my phone is old like that, I can't do fokol on it.
Don't miss me too much!!!!
Later!
Thursday, March 5, 2009
I just had to let ya'll know about this 42year old man in a crisis.... I wouldn't call it a mid-life crisis but ya.
This is a man with the typically ideal life.... in theory that is.
2 kids - boy and girl that are doing quite well at school, into sports and have good morals. A wife, a beautiful wife, with a slim figure, always dressed to the nines, a job at the gvt complex (legislature), a smart home at a security complex, 2 luxury cars.
I mean, if you are like me and you are looking at that picture from far, you'd think wow! That is a nice family.
Well problem is the man is confused to the last bit, he has had sex with a prostitute, with a tertiary kid, with a woman older than him and to a mo'f*cken fag.
(Do not ask me how I know this.... I am the goss-princess of Nelspruit, news just come to me... I just make sure how true they are.)
Ok, basically what I see here is a man who has it all but still feels incomplete or maybe there are more things to experience in life. That I haven't figured out that one yet.
Now I bumped to this man when I was doing my groceries and I just stood there staring at him as he went on about his business, he was actin too fag, more feminine than me (well, almost every one else is), but that was just too gross.
What was even worse was that he was wearing white linen pants................. with a white man-thong that showed when bent down to take a chocolate by the pay-point. Urgh.... I deliberately stood behind him in the hope that he would say something in a manner that would confirm my suspicions about him being gay!!!!! "F*ck me.................. slowly" was what came out of my mouth - in a low, whispery tone, the man turned around and said: "Ooh, darling I prefer it being given to me". for a second I thought I had heard wrong and given the fact that my mind is in slow-mode after 16H30, it only registered while driving back to my place.
Now, men.... tell me, how the hell do you go from being a normal man with all of that to being a person that lives 2 lives. One = straight loving husband and father and the other = a gay man.
I know it is becoming normal these day but I still cannot get that in my mind.
Someone make me understand
I know I have dated a man who told me 7 months down the line that he was shagging men (reason why he never brought the sex issue during our "relationship") and that he wasn't planning on stopping anytime soon as he was getting a lot of benefits in the process. Right, I was young then and had no thoughts of settling down and having kids and a proper home.
Now I am wondering if one will ever find a normal man when so many of them are choosing to get into same-sex relationships themselves.
There was a time a dated a woman for a whole year and even with that I still knew that it is something I def wouldn't want to do for the rest of my life... It doesn't make sense!
Madoda nashiya ubudoda benu nje, kwenzenjani???
This is a man with the typically ideal life.... in theory that is.
2 kids - boy and girl that are doing quite well at school, into sports and have good morals. A wife, a beautiful wife, with a slim figure, always dressed to the nines, a job at the gvt complex (legislature), a smart home at a security complex, 2 luxury cars.
I mean, if you are like me and you are looking at that picture from far, you'd think wow! That is a nice family.
Well problem is the man is confused to the last bit, he has had sex with a prostitute, with a tertiary kid, with a woman older than him and to a mo'f*cken fag.
(Do not ask me how I know this.... I am the goss-princess of Nelspruit, news just come to me... I just make sure how true they are.)
Ok, basically what I see here is a man who has it all but still feels incomplete or maybe there are more things to experience in life. That I haven't figured out that one yet.
Now I bumped to this man when I was doing my groceries and I just stood there staring at him as he went on about his business, he was actin too fag, more feminine than me (well, almost every one else is), but that was just too gross.
What was even worse was that he was wearing white linen pants................. with a white man-thong that showed when bent down to take a chocolate by the pay-point. Urgh.... I deliberately stood behind him in the hope that he would say something in a manner that would confirm my suspicions about him being gay!!!!! "F*ck me.................. slowly" was what came out of my mouth - in a low, whispery tone, the man turned around and said: "Ooh, darling I prefer it being given to me". for a second I thought I had heard wrong and given the fact that my mind is in slow-mode after 16H30, it only registered while driving back to my place.
Now, men.... tell me, how the hell do you go from being a normal man with all of that to being a person that lives 2 lives. One = straight loving husband and father and the other = a gay man.
I know it is becoming normal these day but I still cannot get that in my mind.
Someone make me understand
I know I have dated a man who told me 7 months down the line that he was shagging men (reason why he never brought the sex issue during our "relationship") and that he wasn't planning on stopping anytime soon as he was getting a lot of benefits in the process. Right, I was young then and had no thoughts of settling down and having kids and a proper home.
Now I am wondering if one will ever find a normal man when so many of them are choosing to get into same-sex relationships themselves.
There was a time a dated a woman for a whole year and even with that I still knew that it is something I def wouldn't want to do for the rest of my life... It doesn't make sense!
Madoda nashiya ubudoda benu nje, kwenzenjani???
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